Last week, I concluded my review of Jelena Dokic’s first book, Unbreakable, by observing that it felt like an unfinished story. Given the abuse she endured at the hands of her father during her professional tennis career, the “happily ever after” ending felt a little too tidy. Of course, I read that book with the knowledge that her second book, Fearless: Finding the Power to Thrive, was next up in the queue for me.
In the opening pages of Fearless, Dokic confesses that she continued to process fear, shame, and embarrassment even after her first book was published. She subsequently hit emotional rock bottom following a split with her long-time partner. Her latest book is structured around chapters that highlight various aspects of mental health, which chronicle her continued struggles toward emotional well-being. Dokic candidly shares her strategies for rebuilding self-esteem, finding resilience, and reclaiming her life.
Fearless also examines recent events and observations by other players that reveal a belief that abuse of young players on the WTA tour is not uncommon. Speaking from a position of her own experiences, she starkly reminds us that the WTA has room for improving the safeguarding of its players. This book prompted me to review the coverage of one of her father’s more publicized blow-ups in the New York Times. It is stunning to think that no one wondered if she was OK and sought to intervene.
As Dokic attempted to re-establish her professional tennis career in 2005, she faced body-shaming from sportswriters due to a slight weight gain compared to her earlier playing days. She connects that experience to those of current players who now have more latitude to speak out about mental health issues. However, they also endure an onslaught of abuse through social media.
Dokic also observes how menstrual cycles can impact sporting performance as well as the paucity of medical research on how to combat and alleviate some of those challenges. She correctly observes that if periods were a male issue, there would most likely be decades of sports science research toward the development of treatments and solutions.
Todd Woodbridge is cited as an encouraging force as Dokic transitioned from a player to a commentator in Australian tennis media. She credits him with a pivotal role in her journey, offering mentorship, guidance, and unwavering support. That sense of belonging and empowerment has been crucial to Dokic’s post-playing career.
Fearless is Dokic’s testament to the immense value of joy and happiness. It emphasizes the importance of surrounding herself with the right people and cherishing small pleasures in life. After enduring years of hardship and struggle, she has come to appreciate the simple yet profound moments that bring genuine contentment.
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Fearless: Finding the Power to Thrive is a story of continued resilience, courage, and overcoming significant challenges both on and off the court. The book provides an insightful look into the pressures of professional sports and the strength required to confront and overcome personal trauma. It is also a reminder that “happily ever after” is a journey that is never fully completed.
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